Anonymous asked: i have an ex that agreed he wanted to still be in my life and me in his but whenever we text he is terrible at conversation and always treats me like i'm trying to get him back or ruin his new relationship. i swear i haven't. i always back off if he gets defensive and he's ALWAYS the one texting me first. why does he text me if he thinks i'm gonna do that? i'd ask him straight up but we can only text and he can and will likely run or hide behind his phone. what's going on in his head?
He probably wants to reconnect with you without all the drama. He can’t help it because the times he spends with you just reminds him of your relationship. Just give him time, he’ll come around :)